Han Ji Min's Dating Disasters Reveal K-Drama's New Romance Formula

A late-30s woman navigating the minefield of blind dates. JTBC's upcoming drama "The Practical Guide to Love" has dropped its teaser, and it's a scene many viewers will recognize all too well.

The Reality of Dating Hell

Han Ji Min's character Lee Ui Yeong decides to pursue love and dives headfirst into the world of blind dates. The teaser shows her forcing awkward smiles across restaurant tables, only to watch situations spiral. Her dates take phone calls mid-conversation, uncomfortable silences stretch endlessly, and some men simply walk away.

The drama promises to follow Ui Yeong as she encounters two men with contrasting charms, played by Park Sung Hoon. But what's fascinating isn't just the plot—it's the choice to center the narrative around dating disasters. Where K-dramas once celebrated fateful encounters and romantic coincidences, they're now confronting the messy reality of modern dating.

K-Drama's Romance Evolution

The 2020s have marked a clear shift in how Korean dramas approach love stories. Gone are the days when every romance followed the "What's Wrong with Secretary Kim" or "Descendants of the Sun" playbook of fantasy-level romance. Instead, we're seeing shows like "Our Blues" and "Twenty-Five Twenty-One" that ground their love stories in recognizable struggles.

The title itself—"The Practical Guide to Love"—signals this transformation. The word "practical" would have seemed almost antithetical to K-drama romance just a decade ago. Love was supposed to be about destiny, not strategy. Now, Korean television is treating romance as something that requires planning, effort, and yes, practical thinking.

This shift mirrors broader changes in Korean society. Marriage ages continue to rise, single-person households are increasing, and the pressure around dating has intensified. According to Statistics Korea, the average age at first marriage reached 33.7 years for men and 31.3 years for women in 2023.

What Global Audiences Want

As K-dramas reach international audiences through Netflix and other platforms, authenticity has become crucial. Global viewers want to experience Korean romance culture, but they also need to connect with universal experiences of dating anxiety and relationship struggles.

Blind dating serves this dual purpose perfectly. While the cultural specifics might differ, the core experience—awkward first meetings, compatibility concerns, social pressure to find "the one"—resonates across cultures. Han Ji Min's forced smiles and visible discomfort speak a universal language of dating dread.

Yet this raises an intriguing question: Can K-dramas maintain their distinctive dramatic flair while embracing realism? There's a delicate balance between being relatable and being entertaining. Too realistic, and you lose the escapist appeal. Too fantastical, and you lose the emotional connection.

The Commodification of Romance

Perhaps most telling is how "The Practical Guide to Love" treats dating as a skill to be learned rather than magic to be experienced. This reflects a broader cultural shift where even intimate relationships are increasingly viewed through the lens of optimization and efficiency.

Dating apps have already gamified romance. Self-help books promise to crack the code of attraction. Now K-dramas are acknowledging that modern love often feels more like a project than a passion. Whether this represents a healthy dose of realism or a troubling commodification of human connection remains to be seen.