Becca Tobin Slams Matthew Koma Over 2026 Toxic Mom Group Drama

Is there anything tackier than a husband jumping into his wife's social circle disputes? Glee star Becca Tobin isn't holding back, calling Matthew Koma's recent behavior "gross" as the fallout from Ashley Tisdale French's anonymous essay continues to rock Hollywood.

The Becca Tobin Matthew Koma Feud 2026 Explained

According to Entertainment Weekly, the controversy ignited on Tuesday's episode of the LadyGang podcast. Becca Tobin addressed the social media attacks made by Matthew Koma—husband of Hilary Duff—against Ashley Tisdale French. Tisdale French had previously written a piece for The Cut about leaving a "toxic" mom group, which internet sleuths immediately linked to Duff's inner circle.

Koma didn't take the rumors lightly. He posted a mocking image on social media, calling Tisdale French the "most self-obsessed tone deaf person on earth." Tobin, however, argues that Koma's intervention was unnecessary and attention-seeking. "I think it is so gross when husbands jump in and get petty," Tobin noted, emphasizing that since Ashley didn't name names, Koma's defense was actually an offensive attack.

Inside the Celebrity Mom Group Scandal

The tension between these former Disney and musical stars has been building for years, but the 2026 escalation marks a new low for public discourse between the groups. Tobin's co-host, Jac Vanek, even compared the situation to 'The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives,' calling it "reality show, dumbass husband drama."