He Begged for an Open Marriage for 8 Years. When She Agreed, It Wrecked Him.

Be careful what you wish for—a lesson one man is learning the hard way after finally getting his long-desired open marriage. A woman has shared the story of how her husband of eight years, who had "passively-pushed" for an open relationship for ages, is now falling apart after she agreed to it.

According to her online post, the moment she gave him the green light, his demeanor completely changed. "He's become insane and insecure," she wrote, describing him as a "wreck." The twist? She hasn't even started seeing anyone else yet. The mere possibility of her being with another person was enough to unravel him, and the situation has deteriorated so badly that she is now considering a divorce.

The husband had long romanticized the idea of an open marriage, but according to his wife, he couldn't handle the reality. His inability to cope with the terms he himself set has pushed their 8-year marriage to the brink.

"He Wanted a Hall Pass, Not a Partner"

Online commenters were quick to analyze the husband's behavior, with many concluding that he never truly wanted an equitable open relationship. "He wanted permission to cheat while you stayed home," one user wrote, summarizing the general sentiment.

Others pointed to a psychological phenomenon. One commenter noted it was a case of "projected emotions," suggesting the husband was projecting his own desires and insecurities onto his wife. He assumed she would act on the new freedom just as he intended to, triggering his own latent jealousy and fear.